That's a good attitude to have, and a very generous outlook. Perhaps if I were in your shoes I'd be tempted to react bitterly, but of course you alone must be in those shoes, and you have much knowledge that we, the mere readers of this thread, can't have. Like you said, you know her. So I don't doubt your response is appropriate for the circumstances.
I hope she'll talk to you again -- sometime.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"