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Old 02-26-2014, 04:26 AM
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Just wanted to say I was in the exact same situation when myself and my partner became involved, and his long term gf did not want us having intercourse. It was hard, and I resented her at first. However, I found that once I stopped seeing her as a threat and someone to be angry at, but instead started talked to her and trying to understand her side of things that everything started running smoother. Once we started talking about how the relationship effects both of us she stopped feeling so threatened and started to be able to trust me. Things are much better now, and there are no rules on his and my relationship, but I also make sure if anything new were to happen that she knows about it so she isn't shocked if it does come up later.
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