SchrodingersCat: at least I can say this about him. He never planted that seed in my head, it's been firmly entrenched there for over 30 years. What he tells me is that he knows a huge number of men who would LOVE to be with me, and that I need to "show some confidence, Girl!" He also tells me he still can't believe I'd want to be his lover.
I'm beginning to not believe it either! : ) We'll see. Maybe I'll go back in wearing my full suit of armor.
Me: married to H for 14 years.
M: Boyfriend of about 1 year.
M2: Boyfriend's girlfriend of about 5 years, and a good friend of mine.