Thank you for writing this article.
it was helpful in bringing up this topic for discussion between BF and myself, not only regarding the death of his parents and how that would be handled, also a deep discussion about if either of us became ill and hospitalized or dead.
We were able to have a honest conversation about how we would like to handle things, and here are just a few of the questions we discussed:
Would I be able to visit him in the hospital? Would wife even let me know if he became ill? what about the funeral, could I show my respects and say good-bye?
ok honestly we never got any answers but at least we are talking about these things now, thanks to this article