Wait, SC, you just confused me. You believe that humans as a species are probably hard-wired for non-monogamy at the ape/biological/evolutionary level...which I tend to agree with...but a few posts ago in this same thread, you were offended that someone dared suggest that all humans have the innate capacity to love more than one person.
How do you reconcile those two views? This is something I struggle with, because I do recognize that many, many people identify as mono. I don't in any way think that their experiences are invalid.
Single, straight, female, solo, non-monogamous.