You guys are right. Clearly we have some things to work through, as this is all very new for both of us. We have always been open and communicative, so I think we have at least paved the road well. This is a conversation that will have to take place over the course of some time, it won't all be hashed out in one evening, so I will take these thoughts with me as we make the journey.
Thanks especially for the reassurance that just because he is bi doesn't mean he will up and leave me for someone of the opposite sex.