Why did you go along with that foolishness? She is dictating how you can be in a relationship with this man. She may be his wife but she's not his owner - nor yours. The only person who should have a say about what you do with your body is YOU.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein