My husband Butch needs BDSM in his life.
I can not give that to him. He has play partners outside our marriage. It has made things a thousand times better in our marriage. He gets that need scratched, and he doesn't badger me into partaking in in activity that I resent him for that honestly creeps me out.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.