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Old 02-18-2014, 01:34 AM
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All I can say is good luck. I have played both the role of R and the reluctant husband and both scenarios suck. As far as your husband role is concerned all I can say is to remove your ego and self from their relationship. This helped me. Remember that their relationship has nothing to do with you anymore than her relationship with a nonromantic partner has to do with you. I think this is where people get hung up. They keep asking themselves "what about me?". What about you? Keep repeating to yourself "I don't own or control their relationship or them as individuals so it is not for me to destroy it". Maybe this helps.
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