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Old 02-18-2014, 12:04 AM
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I will give you the benefit of the doubt and consider that maybe (hopefully) you didn't intend for that to come across as judgemental as it sounded.

It seems I wasn't clear enough on the fact that I know I am not ready for another relationship right now and that I am working through my issues as hard as I can while still remaining functional.

As for not thinking relationship decisions through: if you are referring to me moving to the US and marrying then, actually, that decision was years in the making and I thought a lot about it. If I could do it over then I'd go about it a different way (avoiding my in-law) but I know why I did what I did and it made sense for me at the time. I had no way of knowing that I would be so mistreated.
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