Originally Posted by kdt26417
I think letting your ex talk to you is forgiveness enough for the time being. There is still much healing to be done. Perhaps eventually you will write her a letter or something. Just remember you can forgive someone while still having realistic expectations of them.
Glad you're feeling better, fingers crossed for you.
Thank you. I am fully healed and free of pneumonia.
You are right. I have no idea how or when that healing will occur. I am simply not sure if it will ever occur. Where do you start to heal? It just seems incomplete and unresolved. It is kind of hard to close a chapter when there was never a resolution. It just is in a state of suspension. The wounds are still open, and I know these things cannot be rushed.