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Old 02-16-2014, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by kdt26417 View Post
I think letting your ex talk to you is forgiveness enough for the time being. There is still much healing to be done. Perhaps eventually you will write her a letter or something. Just remember you can forgive someone while still having realistic expectations of them.

Glad you're feeling better, fingers crossed for you.
Kevin T.
Thank you. I am fully healed and free of pneumonia.

You are right. I have no idea how or when that healing will occur. I am simply not sure if it will ever occur. Where do you start to heal? It just seems incomplete and unresolved. It is kind of hard to close a chapter when there was never a resolution. It just is in a state of suspension. The wounds are still open, and I know these things cannot be rushed.
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