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Old 02-16-2014, 03:46 AM
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Hi and welcome! You sound very secure and happy with how things are going in your life. So, good for you. Something about your writing style reminds me of another member we have here - her username is idealist. It's not your situations, which are very different from each other, but she also writes in a straightforward, confident voice.


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Originally Posted by Spiritowl View Post
She knows but 'doesnt know' our arrangements.
By this, do you mean that she knows her husband has relationships with others, but she prefers not to be aware of who they (you) are or when he meets up with them (you)?
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