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Old 02-15-2014, 09:24 PM
bofish bofish is offline
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O, I'm just ruminating about my own situation.

I'm in a long-term marriage with a kid. My husband's girlfriend identifies as poly, but has never been married or in a long-term relationship. She definitely wants a primary (which puts a lot of stress on my husband). It seems that she would be able to get her needs met better if she just approached the situation differently, but who knows!

I do thing being single is inherently poly, because most people date lots of people until they "settle down." But I, personally, would;t date a married poly guy if I wanted a primary partner, it seems too painful.
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