I have not seen the movie but if indeed a computer had intelligent life then wouldn't it be a sociopath. How would it develop empathy? This isn't to say that sociopaths don't have relationships but how honest they are in those relationships is only as honest as they need to be to get what they want out of it.
And I don't like movies with a moral code. I prefer realistic. I want humans to be humans in all their screwed up and mental issues.