Butch has always pulled his weight with the kids once they were not exclusively breast fed. When he was laid off his job he was a SAHD for a few months.
I am sorry but NRE its never an excuse for bad behavior.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.