Thank you for the welcome!
Thomas has his moments. Honestly his age makes a huge difference. My husband is 26 and as I said P is 43. Thomas is a typical young guy and Paul has been married twice, two adult children, military background and has lived in many dofferent places. There is jealousy but it is usually open and handled with clarity when it pops up. I view T as my primary since we are married with a child. I so my best not to let occasions or time wih P to overshadow him. That helps the peace.
The two girls are willing and love him. They are looking for him to put more effort in. He really cannot seem to find what he needs. I think he is truly in search mode for his sexuality. He is bisexual.