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Sounds like you have tried a couple of relationship models, and found out what works best for you. If you haven't yet read "Opening Up
" (by Tristan Taormino), you may find it interesting.
How does Thomas feel about Paul? Any chance one of Thomas' female friends will "upgrade" their relationship with him?
Hope you enjoy your stay on Polyamory.com; you'll find so many different kinds of people and configurations here.
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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