Hehe, I havent yet spoken to or met my bf's newest girlfriend or whatever she is, but I can relate to not really giving a shit if she's getting her needs met, whatever they may be, by talking to and sexing my bf.
She's got 4 other sex partners so who knows? She's just newly divorced and poly and experimenting.
I care that he seems to enjoy her company. So I am doing my best to develop compersion.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37