When he was processing his jealousy and discomfort with my proposition, and was coming to terms that he would have rather not known, he confessed that he has stepped out "a few times", but never told me because he took pains to make those affairs self-contained; jsut sex, once, and he drops contact with them. Somehow, this is ok in his book.
This struck me as awfully cold. I personally would never want to be with a guy who treats other women like this. I would be fairly certain that some or all of those sex partners didn't know that all contact would be cut off after one sexual encounter. Shuddering here. Are you sure he is the guy for you?
Female, married just about forever to Scout. My boyfriends are E. and C. Both are married, and C also has another lover, J.