Really did you need to overshare the details to get your question answered.
You need to have a grown up conversation with your partner not be a braggart and exhibitionist on a message board. If my husbands posted this graphic info on a message board about me there would be hell to play.
IMO overstating intimate details is crass and disgusting.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.