Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I can't stop it...it just comes out
You are hilarious (corny, but hilarious!)
So since you dipped a toe into my thread, mono...I want to ask, how did you know that redpepper wasn't just an asshole? I mean, sorry redpepper, that sounds bad. I like you a lot. But you know what I mean. What makes it clear that someone who is pursuing multiple relationships at the same time is "poly" versus just...trying to have her cake and eat it too just because
Is it the honesty factor? Like if I were just trying to get my thrills, why go through the trouble of being upfront about what I'm doing?
I mean, wouldn't someone say "Everyone would want to be with more than one person if they could? Why do you think you deserve that? Why are you above the rules?" Of course, as a self-declared "hard-wired mono," you would say no, not everyone does want what I want.
Do you think you could ever want it, under any circumstance?