Originally Posted by Becca
I've been lucky so far... It's a risk of having an active sex life, and not one that can be easily mitigated, except through monogamy (or polyfidelity, I suppose).
We've always practiced polyfidelity, when the ladies brought a potential wife into the family, there was no sex period, until proper testing was completed. Even then there was no unprotected sex until after the wife entered our family. We like you have been very, very lucky in STD department.
I try to love my wives this way, unconditionally! Husbands love your wives, even as Christ loved the church, and gave himself up for her. Eph. 5:25