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Old 02-12-2014, 08:31 PM
Nox Nox is offline
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Join Date: Mar 2013
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by bofish View Post
It seems like many posts here have either intregated families, don't have kids, or are paramours. Does anyone have a situation with a lover who is not involved with the family and the primary couple has a kid (or kids)? How do you figure in the workload?
My lover is long distance, so it's not directly applicable, but our timeframes just mesh well. We talk during the day at work, and then later in the evening after spouse and kids are asleep. She generally only sees her local bf on the weekends, so I work into her schedule equally well.

I visit her about once ever 3 months for a few days, typically during the week so as both not to take away time from my family and also not to take away time from her bf.
Me: 41 straight male in a V with
Wife: Kay - mono female - married 18 years
LDR ex? girlfriend: Susan - serial monogamist female - 4 year relationship ended? 9/29
Stakes - very intimate friend
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