What about your partners feelings. Its it really fair to ask them to pretend nothing its going on romantically in front of children is kind of a slap in the face to their importance in your life. Go? is it quality time ?
I have my kids more often than not when Murf is off work and we are together. He would not be happy if he was told sorry no pdas in front of the kids. He would feel devalued and unimportant. Are we making out in front of the kids heck no. But he would not tolerate not being able to cuddle on the couch. Kiss me, and etc.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.