If I Don't want to meet someone I won't. The more my partner tried to coerce me the more in would refuse and get pissed.
Its not any of my responsibility to help my partner with his other relationships. If he gets dumped because I refuse to meet someone he's seeing thats not on me.
IMO OP, you are 100% in the wrong here.
Sue, hinge in a vee with Nate (Polysexual) and Sam (monogamous)