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Old 02-12-2014, 05:32 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
Posts: 1,856

We don't have any kind of BDSM/kinky arrangements in our "core Vee"...

That being said - my husband/primary is much more of a "go along/get along" type (Beta) than my boyfriend/"secondary" (I put secondary in quotes because I view us as more of "working toward co-primary") - who is much more of an Alpha-type I am an "Alphas-type" female this often leads to conflict (which we Alphas are comfortable with ...but makes my husband uncomfortable).

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (6+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic hetero girlfriend and BFF
MrClean: hetero mono male, almost lover-friend to me, FWBs to SLeW
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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