Just wanted to let you know that I have been following your blog with interest. Thank you for sharing so much of your day-to-day thoughts and struggles with us.
I am empathizing right now with the struggles associated with having a relationship with someone who lives over an hour away. Lotus (and her husband) live an hour+ away from us three.
The other weekend she and I were out for a "girls' day" and having a conversation about "how does it work to love someone who lives over an hour away...that you will never live with." Our answer was "hopefully, we will have plenty of time to find out."