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Old 02-12-2014, 03:57 AM
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There doesn't even have to be a hierarchy, how about that?

Many of us practice egalitarian polyamory, where no one is primary, secondary, or tertiary at all -- and all partners are considered just as important as any other.

That being said, being submissive has nothing to do with being considered "secondary" or not.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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