I don't recall saying that. What I've said is that my son doesn't forget people and spots inconsistencies in behaviour. There is also the element of wanting him to understand how one can misuse sex and consent issues before I promote casual relationships so I don't want him to see me indulge in any and misunderstand my motivation. I am as sure as I can be that my current partner and I could transition into a friendship model if it worked better for us. That's why ive allowed some contact.
Last edited by london; 02-11-2014 at 08:44 AM.