I don't even bring new friends around my kids unless it is a large social affair.
Why because I do not know them and my children are precious and it is my job to keep the home life safe, secure, and stable.
Only people who are around my children at my home are Murf, my boss who its also my friend of 20 yrs, his long term girlfriend, and a handful of other long term friends. New people we socialize with outside the home. Everyone is on their best behavior until they truly know you.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.