Originally Posted by PolyinPractice
Seem to recall something about your girlfriend meeting her girlfriend first. Not that it really makes a difference, but it sure sounds like your girlfriend thinks her girlfriend is the primary, and you're the secondary.
Either way, lack of communication, respect, etc btw the two of you says you don't have much of a relationship.
That does make a lot of sense, her gf is probably her primary BUT her gf's hubby gets out soon and her gf will run back to her hubby, sigh BUT my gf is currently much more comfortable with perhaps the image of me being her sole sexual relationship and its been really hard to build up much of a relationship partially by the fact that she spends a lot more time with her gf/best friend.