In the end, I sounded whiney here. I am interesting in dialoging about how people do things...but I need to be more unapologetic for getting my needs met. That is part of the issue. Can anyone give a link here to a similar situation.
It seems like many posts here have either intregated families, don't have kids, or are paramours. Does anyone have a situation with a lover who is not involved with the family and the primary couple has a kid (or kids)? How do you figure in the workload?
Last edited by bofish; 02-10-2014 at 08:22 PM.