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Old 02-08-2014, 09:29 PM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
Posts: 1,698

I don't "date" per se - but we tend to only get involved with people who already know us (and anyone who knows us socially, knows that we are together) or that we have met through a venue where the poly is disclosed up-front (like MeetUps or on OKC).

Since MrS and I wear wedding bands and Dude lives with us - it would be pretty hard for us to keep the poly a secret from anyone that really got to know it is unlikely to ever be a problem.
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (5+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic girlfriend and BFF
Lotus: "it's complicated"
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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