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Old 04-08-2010, 03:13 PM
korindino korindino is offline
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Saint Louis, MO
Posts: 45

I suppose it depends on the rules, but I guess it might be restrictive.

What is important is to understand the spirit of the rule, not the letter of it. When you and your partners set forth these boundaries, did they explain why they wanted them? This is the heart of the matter.

If you feel like the rules are restricting you, talk to your primary. Figure out why they made those rules. Chances are it has to do with some insecurity or fear--and you're going to have to meet that fear with love. If you do this, maybe you'll figure out a way to understand what your partner needs from you before you can be less restricted within the quad.

Good luck.
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