I think what bothers me the most is that I start thinking, " this sounds really nice, I think I want to try it" and the brakes get put on. That's frustrating. It feels a whole lot like he can do it, but I can't. Pick a direction & that's the way I'll go, but stop waffling on me and don't think a double standard will work. I don't want a boyfriend to balance things, but I would like to explore it and see if this is something I want too.
Me - Mostly mono female, 39 yrs old, married to Leo.
Leo - Poly bi-sexual male, 37 years old. Married to me and looking.