Originally Posted by LoveBirds
Everyone keeps talking about reality with this stuff. I think most people are just so envious of others and full of themselves that they cannot bare the though of happiness. I will def get there. It is a reality It will happen. I remember thinking I would never find a girl to fall in love with. Sigh......I love people. I wish everyone the best all the time.
The irony is that an overwhelming need for a closed OPP would tell most of us we have serious personal or relationship issues. Not to be envied.
People also suggested the most successful way they know to achieve a closed OPP which was dating separately but it triggered you and you shut down.