Why should veto power come into play when kids are involved.
If someones judgment is questionable about who they would expose children to then you shouldn't be having children with them in the first place.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.