I wonder if your partner worries that since lack of adequate income is such a hardship for you that the "daddy" arrangement leaves you vulnerable to coercion and/or manipulation. It is one thing to have autonomy to follow your joy - new loves, for example - but could be quite different where you are playing a role for money. What if the daddy pushes your boundaries a little, and you relent because the reward is so good? What if the daddy then pushes a little further? I think your boyfriend worries because unlike a relationship where both parties have the same thing to gain or lose - the relationship itself - this is an uneven playing field. Will you always be able to tell if you are doing something because you really enjoy it or doing it because the financial reward is too good? This would be a tough question for anybody.
Last edited by bookbug; 02-06-2014 at 01:04 AM.
Reason: Typos and clarification