Well, then. What she was doing is cheating, and cheating is not polyamory.
I saw what you posted in the other thread and it looks like you are bitter and lashing out at people. Poly works well for many of us, and for many families. I am sorry your wife's behavior hurt you and resulted in your kicking her out and stewing in anger. However, if you continue to bash us and call people names like you just did to me here, and in your other post, you won't be welcome to post here anymore. Please review our Guidelines
before posting again.
You are obviously in pain, but we do not allow name-calling or flaming here. Do not do it again.