Yeah... my ex h and I didn't have that kind of understanding, at all. It was a huge elephant in the room for most of our 30 years together. So stupid.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37