Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
This is a question that has to be asked for someone who is monogamous in a relationship with a person who is non-monogamous. If you can handle the introduction of a new partner, does that imply you will be able and healthy if there is a of cycle or expection of adding others?
This is a question that has to be asked if you are poly-fi by nature too.
I say this because I can handle the introduction of a new partner, but I can NOT handle a "revolving door". Nope, no way.
Also-I don't WANT a revolving door for myself. I have the two men I am in love with. If one of them left, I would not go seeking another. (ok maybe if it were you Mon hahahaha).
No-seriously, I don't want to experience every opportunity available, I just want to be with the two men I'm in love with, for life.