Also-a general happiness does not mean that you never encounter issues.
I am in the midst of a "growing up/learning" issue with GG. But in now way am I "unhappy" in our relationship. I'm unhappy about a DETAIL in our relationship which we are working on finding a good, equitable solution to.
As far as my relationship with GG all in all-I'm very happy.
As far as my relationship with Maca all in all-I'm very happy.
As far as my "poly-family" dynamic-I'm thrilled and happy.
"Love As Thou Wilt"