Married and researching the poly world
30s married 10 years. No kids.
My husband became involved with a mother of 3 (from 2 different fathers. And she's been married twice not to one of the fathers).
My husband wants to pursue but is respecting my time request to o grasp how I feel and to better our relationship to handle this new situation.
I. Love. Them. Both. I am empathize easily. I love his passion for her and I love her love for life and her kids.
I am happy with attention, sex, etc I am just getting some much needed experience from this very awesome forum.
I believe I am mono but I can understand how if I had a friendship like my husband does with CA, that I'd want an even closer connection.
"Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people." Carl Jung