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Old 04-07-2010, 09:54 PM
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i will answer this from my personnal situation,
i asked him to open up and be poly because i realised that i could not imagine spending my life monogomous, i was not willing to sacrafice that part of myself and i was willing to give up a romantic relationship with him if it meant i had to do this,
i was prepared for him to leave me,
i loved him and i would have hoped to keep him as a close friend but i was very prepared for him to want to stay mono and then deal with the end of our romantic relationship,

it turned out he wanted to be poly too so it worked out well for us,
but i would not, and never will become monogomous for someone elses benifit and if they really did not wish to be poly i would never expect or force them into this situation for my benifit,

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