After exploring this site, I realised in my last relationship with two men, I was a hinge of a V.
So now I know and able to label that, I can put that into a box and tuck it away.
After al,l my reasons coming to polyamory was because of being Bi, wanting both a male and female relationship, AT THE SAME TIME.
I ended up instead with two men as my first go around haha. Oh well, live and learn, and by writing this, I realised my first reason to want to polyamory,
because I like men and women duh
I feel quite silly not realising that sooner. I can't see the forest for the trees some days