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Old 01-29-2014, 08:03 PM
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Well, of course it doesn't feel like a compliment. You've been objectified. It's like the chick wants a threesome and thinks she can just insert whatever pretty woman she comes across into the situation - and the objectified woman should feel special for that? I guess a lot of men don't understand how icky and distasteful that is, since women are constantly treated this way in society - as if our looks are all there is to who we are. I'd feel insulted, creeped out, and turned off if I were you, as well -- and frustrated with him, too.
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