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As far as where and how to look for "potential unicorn candidates," there's a few poly-friendly dating sites:
We also have a Dating & Friendships subforum
that can be useful for your search.
Buuut ... might want to consider removing the word "unicorn" from your vocabulary; it means Bad Things to some people and may misrepresent what you have in mind. Perhaps you might try an ad along the lines of, "We are hoping to become an MFF triad?"
Besides the article Magdlyn mentioned, consider also reading A Proposed Secondary's Bill of Rights
I'm sure your motives are sincere, just make sure that potential candidates know you are 100% prepared to treat them as an equal and be flexible towards their situation and needs.
Hope this helps.
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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