Originally Posted by TL4everu2
See, the reasoning behind me asking is this; I don't know that a "poly" relationship between more than two people can last the test of time.
And how long should it go before it has reached that critical point, in your opinion?
I, too, like things to last - I enjoy being with people I love and having them as a part of my life. I am not an NRE junkie at all, in fact I don't really enjoy it much. I enjoy things after the NRE has quietened down.
I know poly configurations that have stayed together for years quite happily, and have lasted longer than most monogamous marriages.