I wonder how long you would remain in the picture for them if you said you werent interested in team dating and only wanted to be with the man sexually and romantically. if they are truly unicorn hunters then surely they would present and all or nothing approach. although some couples might be willing to be patient thinking that if the wife is cool new girl might come around?
Sue with husband of 7 years Nate . Recently broken up with boyfriend of 2.5 years Sam