He also has historically been attracted to women who pay him a lot of attention and are willing to spend a lot of time on the relationship, right off the bat, so that would encompass people who tend to get obsessive and spooky. Does that make sense?
Gotcha. Clam chowder is soup. Not all soups are clam chowder.
But still... given that some of the selections that appear before him sound kinda loopy --- he could be careful not to get sucked in!